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Leo June 2, 2011 at 3:24 am · Reply Reading her emotions….. Hmmm! That’s what I’m trying to say, you have to see-feel or even create a situation where she wants to be kissed, hugged, holding hands, whatever. But yeah, definitely you have to make yourself vulnerable. What it’s “funny” in my situation is that I have women attracted pretty quickly to me BUT even though they are very attracted to me they don’t allow me to phisycally escalete, her attraction towards me doesn’t mean: come and feel me up. It means I’m interested in you, come and get to know me better (comfort) and create a proper situation to escalate when I trust you enough. I’m always trying to keep attraction and comfort going at the same time if it’s possible because I don’t want to fall into the friend zone. Again, I think it’s a matter of calibration.
B Man June 3, 2011 at 3:51 am · Reply The ideas in the post became reality for me over memorial day. Backstory: I’ve been dating a girl for a few months, but we didn’t hang out over the weekend. Instead, I spent time with my roommates and a bunch of their friends who I’d never met. Met a cute girl in the friend circle and just started talking with her. I was speaking softly and calmly, but with sincere, almost bittersweet, eye contact the whole time. In mind I had 60′s sincere & humble game. She was asking me all sorts of these major qualifying questions (she is over 35 and looking for a long-term) and I just told her the *truth*, even about my dating, that I’m not sure where it’s going, etc. Also, I have nothing to brag about — right now I’m out of work and looking for a job…she didn’t even care. Later at the bar a guy is gaming her, he goes to the bathroom, I start talking again *with emotion* while sitting next to her and she just leans over and kisses me. Next night, at another party, *she* proposes we sneak out the back…end up at her place…a great makeout but no sex…because the story isn’t complete yet. Forget the one-nighter. Just stay with it over that initial storybuilding hump, even if it takes 3 or 4 dates, and you are in… And when you have the ability to take your choice of lady along for the ride, all of a sudden you can be more choosy…and find the *right* connection. Yes? Good stuff Mark. I definitely identify with some of these problems. And even hyper-identifying with the problem is part of the reason why people (college age) would be stressed, which is rather ironical. I think the PUA detox is interesting, it’s almost weird how sometimes I’ll satire with wings PUA terminology and the lifestyle, but…yeah, jokes on us, sometimes.
