They put in the least amount of effort, lets be frank. If you’re 50 and you’re a virgin you’ haven’t really tried, or if you have you have been looking in all the wrong places for help.
This is why the pickup community and books like “The game” by neil strauss are so important, so that guys can talk to teach other about relationships. I think the real issue is that in modern society people have so much distraction/entertainment people are no longer socializing the same as they used to in ages past because there is just too much people want to experience, so things like videogames and entertainment act as susbtitutes for people getting off their butts and interacting with others. It’s just too easy to fall into patterns by simple inertia.
workshyjoe PERMALINK
May 29, 2011 12:05 pm
I haven’t met the guy in question, but if I had to hazard a guess I’d say that he’s giving off emotions that basically rule him out of the running on both a sexual and romantic level.
His mother’s death has dealt him a cruel blow but instead of dealing with his loss, he’s looking for someone else to fill the emotional hole.
That is just horrible on so many levels. He’s not a bad guy for wanting to be loved but his needy attitude insures that he will strongly repell every woman he approaches.
As Yohami noted: “You can’t fill a hole with another hole.”
His indebtedness is the first thing he needs to fix and I’m guessing that getting an advanced education played a big role in that.
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